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Dear Ex

You know what I don’t find any point on writing a whole blog on you. But I am writing a blog for someone who could relate this, For them whom I could comfort by giving them company in their sadness that every ex have given to their ex.

Starting from the day you leave saying that we ain’t worthy of your love to the day we realize that you ain’t worthy of anyone’s love. We go through a rollercoaster of feelings, fall into depression the hell lot deeper where no one could drag us out but we ourselves.

When you leave us abandoned,used and depressed we don’t blame you,rather we blame ourselves for not being enough for you instead of realising how unworthy you are for the try. I have no bitter feelings for you,even better? I don’t want to have any feelings for you. I would never have love but I would not waste my hate on you. So chill.

You never blame yourself for cheating on us but start giving explanations for how we are not made for eachother. Do you even respect yourself enough to atleast speak truth to your own soul?? Do you even realize that saying someone ugly and unworthy is a hurtful thing? Do you?

Ahh no you don’t and that being the reason behind you being the ex and not the present. Since childhood I have learnt to thank everything and everyone that teaches you lessons and gives you strength. I would ofcourse thank you for giving me pain which is the biggest strength I could ever have.

We learn to deal with the pain,know our worth and never look back for the unworthy people like you.May be you’re worthy for someone else , something else but you’re definitely not worthy of our love,care and respect. Do you realise using someone when you need them is not loving them rather it’s exploiting them.

To the one going through pain and need support.please stop blaming yourselves. you’re much more worthy than you think. Realisation is all you need. Loving yourself is more important than being loved by the other.I know it’s difficult but its worth a try. Trust me you’re going to be ok someday and thank god for everything happened. 🌹

–Mamita Mallick

Lots of love ❤️💕

Inferiority complex

It’s hard to define your feelings when it comes about your whereabouts in life. The situation where you cannot find yourself. The situation where there’s haste to hate everyone around even though if it’s you.. !

Not able to speak to anyone,not able to introspect ,just feeling low ,even if breathing seems worthless.

You constantly ask yourself. who I am infront of him/her? He/she has what she /he wanted.what do I have?? The situation where you start hating yourself for who you are.Where you feel worthless as compared to the person you compare yourself and where you want to end everything.. !!

“Comparison isn’t lethal… But it’s fatal when it exceeds limits.” When it starts hurting you… there’s an imperative need to stop comparing yourself. Comparison has positive and negative impacts… It rests totally on individual choices…

There are 2 kinds of People.. !!

1.Who absorb the negativities and reflect positivity.

2.Who Reflect negativities and absorb positivity.

The former is lethal where as the later is harmless… In the former case the person allows the negativities to cover up the positive vibes… Whereas the later allows the postivity to whitewash the negativities.

It’s an individual choice and right to choose the right path of life. To get their life straight to the destination they proffered.

Stop comparing with others.Compare your present self with your previous self instead.This takes you towards the light of life and away from the darkness deception.