I don’t know if you could have the same thought as I do but I believe attachments and insecurities are two sides of one coin. These two terms are directly proportional to eachother. The more you’re attached to someone or something,the more you have the insecurities. You try to protect them,hide them somewhere safe and most probably fight with others for them.
Insecurities are both constructive and destructive. As the saying goes,nothing in excess is healthy. Insecurities beyond expectations are always toxic. We assume insecurities are the sign of pure love. But I question do you not trust your own love enough to not be insecure about something or someone? Or do you think they deserve better than you? What exactly are you insecure about?
I know it’s easier said than done but for a change let me question do you really really need to over protect someone that it feels stuck in your love. Taking forward the relationship between the attachment and the insecurities. Attachments that we experience from childhood are the root cause of insecurities. Someone who have gone through tragedy during childhood would always freak out for that thing.Because the fear always sets in in a child’s mind and usually end up developing inferiority complex.we start to assume and approve everything according to our past experiences .There are very few people who are able to surpass the energies of past but there are many individuals all over the world who are still stuck in their bitter past.
The way we’re bought up,the environment we survived in, all have some or other impact on our future. We are all surrounded with our experiences. But let’s be fair with the person we love. He or she may not have the same experiences ,same past.They may not be comfortable with what we are comfortable with. Let’s give them enough space to live in, support and respect them for what they stand for, respect their decisions and most importantly respect them and their freedom as a human being. ❤️
—Mamita Mallick
Lots of love ❤️
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